I’m Done
Are you able to recall an incident which greatly disappointed you, but, logically, it really should not have greatly disappointed you?
My eighth grade Onesies greatly disappointed me recently, and, the situation is one that I really should not have taken so personally.
The Situation: Approximately 50% of the class (there are 13 enrolled in said class) did not fully complete the assignment due, or completed none of it at all. The culprits: Two major assignments for two other courses due on the same day. But, the larger issue, at least to me, is ineffectual time management, organization, planning, initiative and follow-through. This particular group of students as a collective seems to be weak all of the aforementioned areas.
The Problem, #1: I allowed The Situation to impact me to such an extent, I took it personally. I really should not have, because, at the end of the proverbial day, it its the academic progress and results of the students in question that is going to suffer. Until they get tired of low scores, perhaps at that time they’ll raise an eyebrow and make the necessary changes.
The Problem, #2: Where are parents in all of this? Learning support specialists cannot do it all, no more than the subject area teachers can. Mel Levine once said, and I paraphrase here, getting the schoolwork completed is the job of the parent, and not the job of the teacher. Naturally, I am in whole-hearted agreement with this statement, but frankly, too many parents are not doing their jobs.
I discussed the situation with my Dear Brother, who said that the reason I took the situation so personally is because I care. But, at the same time, he agreed that the students in question need to get their ish together.
Anyway, short of after-school homework detention club (which doesn’t currently exist at my place of employ, but ought to), and communicating with parents when the work is completed (I send so many homework-related emails that it isn’t funny), the situation is really beyond my control.
So, short of what is within my power to control. I AM DONE. And, it is only January. ::SIGH::
